Zucchini Skillet

One of my kids has recently decided to go vegetarian, which has sometimes been a challenge for family meals. I sent out an SOS to my newsletter, and a reader, April Richards, suggested dropping a meat substitute into this tasty zucchini skillet recipe to keep everyone fed. Thanks so much, April! Zucchini Skillet 1 or […]

Concert!

A stylized picture of a young woman in a white and purple choir robe sits above the picture of the choir from which it was taken

Some things about parenting are much more fun as kids get older. Concerts are one of them. They start to sound pretty good. When the kids are tiny, it can be hard to sit through their performances, but with near-adult young people, performances can be an actual pleasure. That was certainly the case for us […]

Relaxing

A relaxing picture of a river curving through trees and scrub, mountains in the background

This is one of my favorite views. I’ve been able to regularly enjoy it in the summers since I was younger than my children are now.  Why? Because my mom’s family (and now my parents) have this time-share condo in the Colorado mountains.  Maybe it’s the sound of the river (yes, they call it a […]

Transition to Summer

A wheelbarrow holds purple pansies, planted in a transition to summer

The transition to summer always brings an odd shifting in relationships and activity. School has ended. What marks our days now? Routines have shifted. It seems as if I’d see the kids more, now that we’re all here all the time. But, that’s not necessarily the case. I still have work, and they have their […]

On Pets

Our pets share a pillow

Just after Christmas, our eldest brought home a kitten, so now we have two pets in the house. Our cat and our dog don’t get along particularly well together, but every so often there’s a moment like the one above. I think, in some ways, our family feels a bit this way after the adoption. […]

The Holidays We Have to Learn

red paper lanterns hang near doorways in a hallway, hung for the holidays

When you’ve adopted a kid from a culture different from your own, holidays can be a challenge. Both familiar ones and unfamiliar ones. (I mean familiar to the adults in the household.) I’ve been thinking about this as we’ve made our sixth attempt to create a satisfactory Spring Festival season for our Chinese child. Of […]

Where Did The Adoption Stuff Go?

A head-shaped tree has birds flying away from it. It looks as if parts of the brain are flying away. Words: Something's Missing! Where did all the adoption stuff go?

Where did the adoption stuff go? You may have noticed that there are only a few Kid Stuff posts on this new version of my website, and all the old content has disappeared.  (Unlike the Bookshelf posts, many of which have been updated for the new website.) Well, it’s like this: Updating to the new […]

J Learns to Drive

An illustration of the happy result when J learns to drive. Two stick figures, one male and in the driver's seat, and one female in the passenger seat of a bubbly car are both smiling.

On the way home from school, J was crossing the street on his bike. A car hit him. He was OK, but he didn’t want to ride a bike to school anymore. Getting a driver’s license was hard. J took a class, but the teacher spoke only English. He didn’t understand. So, a tutor explained […]